Showing posts with label Guilty by association. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Guilty by association. Show all posts

Monday, April 26, 2010

Show me the shine in your Japan, the sparkle in your China



Bodhisattva







This weekend I went up to DC and met up with a group of friends. Throughout the week (maybe) I'll post more about the trip.


I think of all the things we did, the hour spent in the Freer Art Museum has the biggest impact on me.


Bodhisattva
Would you take me by the hand
Bodhisattva
Would you take me by the hand
Can you show me
The shine of your Japan
The sparkle of your china
Can you show me
Bodhisattva
Bodhisattva
I'm gonna sell my house in town
Bodhisattva
I'm gonna sell my house in town
And I'll be there
To shine in your Japan
To sparkle in your China
Yes I'll be there
Bodhisattva 


I immediately had this song playing in my mind (as apparently did a few of my companions)






I think the other thing that struck me most on this trip was learning about mandala's. 


I cannot erase this paragraph from my mind, 


"Another visual form associated with Buddhism is the mandala, a representation of an enlightened realm where union between the human and the sacred occurs. Most often, for example in Tibetan Buddhist art or in Japanese Esoteric Buddhist art, the mandala is a circular or square configuration, with a center that radiates outward into compartmentalized areas. The deity at the center of the configuration, who signifies absolute truth, engages in reciprocal interactions with figures in the outer precincts, who signify manifested aspects of that truth. The practitioner unites the outer manifestations in the center of the mandala and then internally absorbs the mandala as a whole."


Compartmentalized truth. Huh. 



For more cool photos from my friend Chris you can go here:


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Sorry I've been so MIA. Work is keeping me busy - even in the evenings. Or just luxuriating in the idea that I have evenings free. And cooking.

Friday, January 22, 2010

Heady Memories

About this time last year I was on a great trip. With this person, and this one, and this one, and she joined virtually for dinner one night. 

My, the changes a year can bring. A new(ish) knee, a new location (x2), new opportunities, and the renewal of long-time friendships. 

 

New, well loved, previously known friends

 

Cheers to good friends, good food, GREAT wine ... and handymen who make the stripes-in-your-ceiling go away.

 

Handmen who say,

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Ack! We're leaving ...

and of course, I'm feeling like I'm not ready in the least.


Tomorrow at this time, Dr. Whiney, Esq. and I will be on our way to Northern California. 


He has been on me all summer to take a trip with him out to San Francisco. Of course with the crazy Webinar schedule at my former employer, that wasn't possible. When I got laid off he said, "Let's go now." And I of course had to remind him that although laid off equaled no office hours - it also meant no money. (and that all my time should be spent LOOKING for a job, not traveling the US). 


He is picking up the tab for this trip. He says he's paying me to be his tour guide.  Which is nice - but still bothersome for me. I don't care if he has WAY TOO MUCH DISPOSABLE INCOME) - I don't like feeling like I can't pay my own way - and that I am using someone. 


However, he's said many times this summer (long before the layoff) - that he's been looking at his friends and family - and evaluating those relationships. Some people only call when they need something (money, legal advice, medical opinions) and they are never there for him when he needs to be encouraged/supported/challenged to grow/move in a new direction.


But I, on the other hand, am always offering to cook a meal for him, inviting him to do something fun/interesting - because I want him to go with me, and consistently GIVE HIM HELL about his life. (Who else is going to talk shit to a lawyer/doctor?) He knows I'm here not because he can pick up the tab, but because I like teasing him mercilessly. He thinks I am one of his "true" friends (which of course is right). So he's trying to concentrate on the friendships/relationship that edify him.


And all of that to point out there is NOTHING in the last romantical about our relationship. Which is good - 'cause he is still crazy and talking about wanting to start a family (at-an-age-older-than-me-I-am-not-supposed-to-mention-how-old-he-is-which-is-still-young-(and he is young looking)-unless-it's-about-the-family-thing. Then-not-so-young.) Of course, you know me. NOT ME, NOT EVER for a family (or my own that I birth or raise, unless they come with someone more incredible than a really, really, fine 42 year-old-single-malt-Scotch and I am not holding my breath).


Also he cannot make/stick to a plan to save his soul - and a few other things that would require me to kill him dead within weeks of starting any kind of intimate relationship.


Here's what I have planned for our trip. He requested we go to Central Cali - so we'll drive up there tomorrow after we land in San Jose. (We're flying in/out of San Jose, don't ask)


We'll spend Wed night with Mom and Dad. Thur we'll go up to the gold rush country - and go see the mines - the Empire Mine and Malakoff Diggins - which is also the North Bloomfield Gravel Company - both mines figure prominently in my novel. It will also be fun for him (I hope) as he is my "advisor" on the legal aspects of the book.  The environmental lawsuit that started US environmental protection regulations in the US happened at Malakoff.


Friday we're going to Lodi and to see my brother. There's the School Street Wine Stroll - 25 wineries and food vendors holding a big to-do. So we'll stay there and do that. I've also picked out 3-4 wineries to visit before the stroll starts.


Saturday we'll drive across to Point Reyes. It should be a beautiful drive - and we'll eat lunch at Osteria Stellina. Then we'll come on down Hwy 1 to Muir Woods. Go for a walk there - and go see my cousins. Maybe go to Angelino's (a family friend's place) in Sausalito. Finally we'll head across the Golden Gate and into the city. We have a hotel on the Wharf (in the middle of tourist town - but at least convenient and affordable to what all we want to do.)


That night we have tickets to go see Nellie McKay! at Yoshi's. A venerable S.F. jazz club. (Actually, the SF location is fairly new. The original is in Oakland and has been around since the 70s.)


Sunday I think we're going to hit Golden Gate Park and check out the newly (to me) remodeled deYoung. If the weather is nice - and Kevin's friend Jen can arrange it, we might go sailing. If not, I might also take Kevin to Fort Point, which has spectacular views. And is where Josiah is first stationed when he comes with the Corp or Engineers to Calif.


Before the end of today, I need to have all the addresses/maps printed out for our trip. So far I have all the stuff for the gold country done. I have wineries picked out of some touring before the wine stroll Friday night.


I have the itinerary for Sat/Sunday done. Just need maps/directions/addresses for the things (and then my spreadsheet will be done.) AND DO NOT MAKE FUN OF MY SPREADSHEET AND GOOGLE MAPS - they are things of divine beauty and planning!!!!


I also need to finalize all the food quantities for the Wed night dinners from 10/21 - 11/12. I did get the 10/hr week cooking job. I met with the director of the program yesterday. We've planned all the menus. I promised I'd have shopping lists, recipes, and schedules to her today. Ack! Ack! Ack!


SO - that's what all is going on with me. Well - that plus networking like crazy and applying for jobs - and researching companies that I'd like to work for - and walking and going 100 mph. I'll try to write, "Having a great time, wish you were here!" messages between now and next Monday.



Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Jake Langley - Cheesecake!

I started Monday’s post (which didn't get posted) with a huge ‘Happy Birthday’ to my friend Sidonie in California.

This is her, on the deck of the cabin at Butte Meadows.

Another friend of mine, Eric, and I spent a night on this deck – in a lounge chair – looking up at the stars and listening to the river. There might have been some sleep involved. I’m sure it was because we’d been to the Bambi Inn – and played pool with the lumberjacks. There’s no other way I’d have slept, I’m sure.

Notice the the yummy looking cheesecake mélange? That’s my girl – enjoying a little bit of everything.

Jake Langley does a little bit of everything too. He’s a jazz guitarist, producer, and composer. This song comes of his “Diggin’ In” album from 1965. Today’s song is a Dexter Gordon composition. Here’s a YouTube video of Louis Armstrong singing the song. (It’s a hoot. (ha! Jason, this is SO YOU!))

I had these great visions of cooking this weekend. I did make some great sukiyaki – but never made it to the Farmer’s Market for tomatoes or peaches – so the Gazpacho and cobbler went unmade. There’s Boston Butt pork roast on sale at $0.99 – I plan on doing my shopping after work. Tomorrow morning I’m going to make this slow cooked pork taco meat. I refuse to call it carnitas, because carnitas are roasted – and caramelized and have a crunch to them.

So if I didn’t do any cooking, what did I do? Well Saturday I did laundry. (I know huge, accomplishment, right?) And paid some bills. And a whole lot of reading. But not research – and class reading. Just procrastinating type reading. However Sunday – the productivity bug bit hard – and I was glad. I washed all the wood furniture in my house down with Murphy’s Oil Soap. I put back together the guest room, dust mopped all the floors – and washed all the dining room/living room windows. Cleaned my bedroom and the bathroom. The house looks great. I didn’t get the kitchen/bathroom floor mopped – nor the window screens cleaned. And my poor plants still languish in 10 year old potting soil – but who knows. Maybe this coming weekend I’ll be productive again.

Once again, Happy B’day Sid!!!

Wednesday, August 05, 2009

Out of this World (Food)

Eddie Harris and Ellis Marsalis have a song on their album "Homecoming" called Out of this World. I think the album and the song are the perfect description of the food from this weekend.

There were a couple of goals we needed to keep in mind with our cooking at this gathering. Although we wanted fabulous food, we didn’t want to spend all day indoors making the food. The first priority was to spend time outside on the dock, in a boat, or on the porch. We also had two young boys to feed. And although they are omnivorous, this wasn’t the place for fussy-time consuming food.

Since Bob was our host – he put the menus together. Of course, part of the get-together tradition is bringing something from home to share with the group. The “from home” component is usually a secret – and so it’s always interesting to see how it will blend in with the set menu.

The first day – there was a lovely cold chunky chicken salad with grapes awaiting us for lunch. That night – we kind of kicked around what to do for dinner. Chris wasn’t there yet – and it was kind of a catch-as-catch can meal. We took inventory numerous times and finally settled on (pre-made) whole-wheat pasta with frozen broccoli, garlic, and red-pepper flakes. Although it was quick and easy (and not entirely from scratch) – it was delicious. Of course – the fact that we were sitting on the deck – looking out at the river and the night lights of Brockville, Canada could have added just that special touch of flavor.

Day two – we knew Chris would be arriving – but not ‘till midnight or later. So he missed out on the fantastic ribs Bob had pre-cooked. And let me tell you. These were A-1 ribs. He’d smoked them during the week. Prior to smoking – the ribs were coated with a dry-rub – that among other things had a little bit of brown sugar, salt, and cayenne. As they cooked, he slathered them with a vinegar mop (‘cause he was also making a Carolina-style pork butt). When he warmed them up that night – he added some Dinosaur Bar-B-Que Sauce – spiked with honey, plus had it on the side as a dipping sauce. It caramelized nicely on the ribs – and added just enough zing to make your eyes light up. (Of course, we were eating pork – so you know my eyes were already twinkling.) I have no idea what side dishes we had that night – the ribs and the HOMEMADE MILE-HIGH blueberry pie just overwhelm my internal memory card.

The blueberries were superb – and it’s amazing they made it into the pie. They were big, juicy globules of delight. Sweet with a bit of tart. SpecificKidlet2 is a huge fruit eater - and how she managed to keep him from devouring this whole bucket of berries is beyond me. Mrs. Specific seemed to think she should have cooked them down slightly before putting them in the crust – as the finished filling was a little bit loose – but I think the fact that we were eating the pie while it was STILL WARM might have had something to do with the runny goodness. It’s a good thing Chris showed up when he did. ‘Cause I don’t think we could have waited much longer to indulge. As it is, I think the boys wanted to claim child abuse as we sent them to bed without dessert. (However, who can complain about blueberry pie for breakfast?)

Saturday morning Chris unloaded his bounty from home. And what a wealth of goodness he brought. If you go over to Metro Farming, you’ll see the haul.

For breakfast Saturday morning we had real New York bagels topped with a cream cheese & pimento stuffed green olive spread and cracked black pepper. I was dubious about the olive/cream cheese combo – until I stuffed it in my face. Generally I think it’s rude to make pig snorking sounds as you eat – but I really wanted Mrs. Specific to know she had an instant convert.

Snack-time that night was a platter full of anti-pasta goodness. Sliced tomatoes, fresh mozzarella, and basil drizzled with olive oil from the amazing Cherry Popper concoction Chris brought in his basket of goodies. The poppers were hot cherry peppers stuffed with sharp provolone cheese and prosciutto ham. They were in a large glass jar filled with good olive oil, additional sweet and hot peppers, and fresh Oregano and Basil from his herb garden. Nestled into this bounty were little nuggets of pepper-crusted dry salami. Mmmm-mmm. For my minor contribution I added freshly roasted North Carolina peanuts from Wilson United Methodist Church.

That all sounds so yummy, you wouldn’t think we’d have room for dinner. WRONG. It was the night that we crossed the boarders – and had a North Carolina night. I was feeling slightly silly – for only have brought the peanuts – but my other offering to the weekend turned out to be a hit – and frequently used.

I brought the hosts “A Love Affair with Southern Cooking” by Jean Anderson. This is the most delightful book. Not only is it full of southern recipes, but it is matched with reminiscences on southern food, and southern food products too. Interested in the origin of Little Debbie cakes? Cheerwine cola? Kentucky Fried Chicken? This is the place to get the story.

I used it to make “Bar-b-que coleslaw" to accompany our pulled pork sandwiches. The coleslaw was great – as it is a marinated vinegar version which skips the gloppy mayonnaise/Miracle Whip debate all together. We also had the amazing handmade cavatelli (pictures in yesterday's post) which benefited from Chris’ garden – and a plunder of items from the Philly Italian markets. Besides oil cured olives there were lovely smoky sardines, tomatoes, garlic, and fresh herbs. It was a perfect summer sauce. Light, flavorful and colorful – with the tomato chunks intact. Mmmm. It might SEEM like an odd accompaniment to pulled pork, but let me tell you. No one skimped on their serving size – nor going back for seconds or thirds. Of course – we were all trying to save a little corner of our stomachs for the peach bumble made by Mrs. Specific. (A bumble is closely related to a cobbler or crumble.)

Sunday morning we finished off the last of the bagels – and continued on with the water fun. For dinner that night (after the daring water rescue) we had chicken jambalaya. It was a quick and easy thing to throw together since Bob had pre-poached the chicken earlier in the week and reduced the stock. I played sous-chef and diced the trinity – then stepped back as the shredded chicken, broth, patty-pan squash (courtesy of Chris), and tomatoes were melded into a wonderfully satisfying mixture of spicy goodness. It’s amazing that any of the smoked sausage or shrimp actually made it into the pot – as there were many hands dipping in to taste ithem before they went in, “just one more time!” The recipe we used was a combo from the Jean Anderson book – and something Bob had earmarked on-line. (And much better than I was expecting – as I had seen a box of Zatarain’s Jambalaya on the counter when I first arrived – and had been trying to tell myself that IF Bob was going to use that as his base for this recipe, I would just shut my mouth and drink more of his beer. However, it was a needless worry, as the whole meal was from scratch.)

Our dessert also came from “A Love Affair” and I think we are all now smitten with the coconut sweet potato pudding made with fat, sugar, more lovely fat, and another scoop of sweetness.

And now I must revisit the pulled pork. Mmmm – smoky, tender, long shreds of pork (which I like better than chopped) with just enough vinegar bite to keep you awake. Although Bob isn’t southern, I’m sure no one down here south of the Mason-Dixon line would kick him out of their kitchen or ban him from their smoker if he offered to contribute this to the table.

And then there was the beer. Homebrewed beer. Award winning beer. There were three delightful choices. A Belgian ale, an IPA, and … (a pilsner?) I’ll have to get THE SPECIFICS from him. I can however tell you that they were all uniformly delicious, cool, frosty, and thirst quenching. And clearly good enough to put water rescues on hold. <huge smile> (And now I have the specifics to share!) There was an American Cream Ale, brewed to historic strength and hop levels suggested by records from breweries before prohibition, an IPA with hops from the Pacific Northwest, and an experimental Imperial Stout which included some "Kafe" malt, roasted to match a coffee-like flavor profile. (The Imperial Stout was my favorite!)

I’m sure there are many more lovely things we nibbled on and that graced our plates. I’m only sorry that I can’t send you all a sample – and that you weren’t there to gain the full ambiance of sunsets, laughter, music, love, and friendship. My best piece of advice is if you’re ever invited to one of our gatherings – you better jump on the invite, like a chicken on a June bug!

How fitting that I write this on “Food Wednesday”? Go – find your favorite recipe – steep yourself in it’s history and taste love.

Monday, August 03, 2009

Kind of Blue - 'Cause I'm Leaving You

This weekend Chris and I traveled north to the 1,000 islands area of Upstate New York to meet up with our friend Bob. Ironically, in all the time I've known Bob, I've never given him a nickname.He's asked for one - and I said they just have to suggest themselves to me, I'm not able to manufacture them out of thin air. Within minutes of Bob and his youngest son picking me up - I had a family name for them. They are the, "Specific" Family.

I wasn't just meeting Mr. Specific's son's for the first time on this trip. I was meeting Mrs. Specific too. When you meet someone for the first time - you never know if you'll click. It's even worse when you love the other people you're going to be with ... because WHAT if their other half (and son's) don't love you??

Mr. Specific has been telling me for several years now that I'd love Mrs. Specific and SpecificKidlet1 & SpecificKidlet2 ... but I was worried. How SILLY of me. Who wouldn't love this family?

They ARE the best hosts ever! I flew in on Thursday - they brought me to the "River House"

This is totally not what I was expecting. My room was in the upper left-hand corner. Those two windows you see. Plus there are two more windows on the side facing the river - and two more across the room from these. I had a gorgeous view AND great cross ventilation.

Our plans ... were pretty spars. We knew we'd be cooking - and talking - but beyond that there was little planned. As our days took shape, we fell into an easy routine. Mr. Specific and I would get up in the morning, brew some coffee and wait for the rest of the group to appear. A few days it was cloudy/raining in the morning - but by mid-day every day the sun was out and we were lounging on the dock.

Around five or six, it would be snack time and close to seven or eight we'd head up to the house and begin dinner. One night it was pasta with broccoli, onions, garlic, and cheese. The following night we had ribs. Of course, you can't go to an Italian family's home and not beg them to teach you how to make pasta.

Chris made a beautiful tomato/olive sauce to envelope these lovely little Cavatelli (pasta quills).

Not to be outdone, Mrs. Specific created a dessert each night. Who (except maybe a dietitian?) would complain about delights such as this each night?

If you add in the Morristown library book sale, the Antique Boat Museum in Clayton ... and the high action drama that took place yesterday, it turned out to be the perfect trip.

HIGH ACTION DRAMA on the St. Lawrence

I was with a bunch of "water people". Even their off-spring frolic like otters.

And so it was - Daddy Specific took off in his skiff. First he had to insert the center board - then raise the jib.

It was a dark and stormy afternoon. But he's a skilled sailor with no fear.

Tagging along with him was the documentarian - who wanted that perfect picture. Moody light - house in the background and the master sailor. However, it appears there was one too many directorial demands - and the whole scene collapsed.

I watched from the porch - with a great beer (IPA) brewed by Specific Daddy. It looked dubious to me

- but I didn't want my beer to go flat - so I let Specific Mommy and SpecificThing1 and SpecificThing2 come to the rescue.

I met them at the dock with dry towels - and then went to the kitchen to begin the jambalaya. We sat down to dinner with Miles Davis and Kind of Blue playing in the background. The music was smooth - the mood was blue - and the jambalaya was the best.

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Frank Sinatra - There's a Small Hotel

Whee – by this time tomorrow I’ll be in the air headed toward Philly. A brief layover and then I’ll be Syracuse bound. Once I get there, we’ll be heading just north of the Jacques Cartier State park – to our “small hotel”. Only it will be better than a hotel – because it’s an old family home. And it has a KITCHEN.

I am so excited about this trip. Chris and I were talking about it just yesterday. It doesn’t matter if it rains the whole time we’re there and we never get off the porch and out on the St. Laurence River. For all of us – the “point” of the trip isn’t sightseeing – or going to the best restaurant – or anything beyond sharing time with wonderful friends.

We know the food’s going to spectacular – how could it not with all of us cooking? There’s homemade pasta in my future – and tomatoes and basil and who knows what else? And WHO CARES?? 'Cause it’s all going to be easy and relaxed. No rushing here and there - no schedules to keep. I can already see myself creeping into the kitchen in the morning – to find really strong robust coffee brewing (or waiting for me to make it).

Sipping the hot beverage on the porch – some quiet time – and birds singing – a book laying in my lap. Perhaps the newspaper. How could any morning be any better?

Dinner with Dilly was great last night. My Spanish tortilla turned out great. It had the fried potatoes (red, yellow, and purple!), sautéed squash w/garlic and mushrooms all nestled on top of a layer of sliced homegrown tomatoes. I cannot wait for lunch today. It was so delicious.

I started out making a tomato/bread salad to go with it – but realized I had some Serrano chilies and cucumber – plus some Mexican cheese and no Kalamata olives – so instead I made a “Gazpacho” salad. It was quite yummy – and carried through on the “Spanish” flavors. I also happened to have a great bottle of white Argentinean wine to go with the meal. It was Don Rodolfo’s Torrontes. A perfect match.

We had fresh cheeries for dessert instead of the peaches. She said she couldn't find any good ones. I haven't been able to find any either. The cherries this year are amazing - but I think it's going to be a bust in the peach department.

Okay – lots to do today here at work – and at home tonight to get packed. I need to leave the house about 5:15 am tomorrow morning! Have a great food Wednesday everyone!

Here’s a great summer slaw recipe that’s not weighed down with mayo. Go forth – discover and cook!

Thursday, July 23, 2009

Diana Krall - I'm an Errand Girl for Rhythm

At four forty-five this morning Jason and I were talking about moods/emotions associated with jazz. The song on the radio was a jaunty tune. It surprised him. For him, jazz is linked to sadness and melancholy - or noir. He says most of this association comes from movies with jazz soundtracks or that feature jazz songs, since he doesn't listen to much (any) jazz radio (except at my house where he has no choice). He also said (and I agree) that when jazz moves into unpredictable melodies and rhythms, it’s hard to follow along.

For me – it’s always about rhythm and the lyrics. Just like our daily lives have a rhythm. A pattern you come to expect and rely on. I like a steady beat in my life. The ability to count out the minutes and know what’s happening when – or where the next measure is taking me.

Of course – that’s a normal conversation for four forty-five in the morning, isn’t it? Or maybe it’s only normal when your driving to the airport and don’t want to say goodbye.

Usually when guests leave, I’m a little bit relieved. I love having company – but I also like getting back to “my schedule”. I can honestly say – even though the house was turned upside down – and he spent more than a week sleeping in the living room – which meant waking up when I got up for work – Jason “fit” into my schedule very nicely.

I’ll miss having someone to cook for each night. To my surprise, Jason turned into a fearless eater, and it was a pleasure to cook for him. Watching him eat on the other hand (what is it with men who can’t cut their food into bite size pieces? *looks at Dr. Whiney*) … isn’t something I’m going to miss.

Even though I am an anal perfectionist – I think we made a pretty good team. (However, I do think SOMEONE needs to learn to accept help when offered. *ahem*)

We become friends with people because we like/admire certain complimentary qualities they have. Just like I’ve gone on about some of my other of my friends, I cannot say enough about Jason’s good qualities. Or maybe what I really appreciate is that he was able to deal with my bad qualities. I think he sells himself short, but among his nicest traits are his strength of character, his sensitivity to others, and the ability to be silent at the right times. Sometimes that means more than a whole lot of words. (Although words ARE welcome!)

Anyway – I’ve said this several times over the last three weeks, only to get varying degrees of shrugs and grunts and uncomfortable looks – but I’m going to say it one more time.

“Thanks Jason. You did a great job, and I cannot tell you how much I appreciate your time and effort.”

Today there was a great interview with Diana Krall on NPR. In it she too talks about rhythms - and how she is a "character actor" type singer. Until she feels the person the song is about, she can never sing it as her own. Instead it always is an imitation of the original version. It's cardboard and lifeless. Kind of like writing. If you can't crawl in that skin - your character is going to stay one dimensional.

There's another thing about writing. Really good writing has little tiny "asides" thrown in. Maybe just three words or another just a sentence, that illuminates a character's personality, while not outright telling the reader. Like instead of saying, "Sally chewed the inside of her mouth, as she waited for the business meeting to start."

The sentence could be tweaked to say, "Sally chewed the inside of her mouth as she waited for the business meeting to start. It didn't matter how long they stalled. She was invincible today because she had an orange sock on one foot and a purple sock on the other."

See - that's a pretty sucky example of what I'm trying to do. But what clues would you gather from someone who thought mis-matching socks made them invincible? I think these little asides also make a story less cardboardish - but it takes a lot of trust (that the reader will get it) and a lot of talent to know what will add without being superfluous.

We'll see what I learned at class tonight.

Thursday, July 16, 2009

Mark Murphy - Jump for Joy

Can I just tell you I have some of the nicest friends?

 

Yesterday when I arrived home from work – Jason TOTALLY had the house ready to go for company. The living room was picked up – the floors were swept – all the tools and home repair stuff were stashed in his room – all the random bits of paper debris were in my room – AND he had the table completely set. Wine glasses and all.

 

The lamb/mint stir fry turned out better than I could have hoped. Which was a good thing since I cut the meat into the thin slices off of a semi-boneless leg of lamb. It took much longer than I anticipated – and if Jason hadn’t done such an excellent job of prepping the house we would have not eaten until nine o’clock.

 

Beth made a great – light and airy – chocolate cheese cake with whipped cream and blueberries. It was the perfect ending to a great dinner. We had such great conversations – and it was casual and easy – and I don’t think Jason got bored being the only man with four women around the table. Of course, he and Susan were able to have a great conversation about sports – college football and horse racing were the primary topics.

 

The last test for the webinar (which will be happening in about two and a half-hours) went GREAT yesterday. We have all the technical stuff FINALLY worked out. You can tell the GM is a pilot. We have a check list to run through before and during the presentations. I have to say “check” after I do each step as he reads them off. It kind of makes me giggle – because sometimes I don’t say “check” and he won’t move on to the next item – he just stares are me, and then I stare back – and then I say, “YOU CAN SEE I’VE DONE IT” and he tells me, “this is very serious – follow the rules”. lol

 

Tonight is writing class – so it’s leftover for dinner. But I don’t think anyone will be complaining.

 

Wish me luck!

 

Oh – ps: Mark Murphy has an amazing vocal sound. His phrasing and timing are legendary in the jazz world. One of the things I did for the seminar was find/buy songs that talk about cotton in the lyrics. I found some fun stuff. Unfortunately I didn’t hear this song until I was driving into work this morning. It was a Duke Ellington tune originally.

 

Fare thee well land of cotton.
Cotton lisle is out of style,
Honey chile
Jump for Joy

Don't you grieve little Eve
All the hounds I do believe
have been killed
Ain't 'cha thrilled?
Jump for Joy

Have you seen pastures groovy?
Green pastures was just a technicolor movie
Tell that boy
"Jump for joy"
Step right in
give Pete some skin and
Jump for Joy


Monday, July 13, 2009

Rob Thorsen - Little Melonae

Rob is an upright bassist. Here’s what he has to say about this tune.

This is an arrangement I did of one of alto saxophonist Jackie McLean’s more popular compositions. The melody has a certain melodic “quirkiness” about it that really stands out. It also uses many harmonic devices that were a direct departure from the more traditional Bebop harmony

Here’s what a critic says,

Jackie McLean's "Little Melonae," a tune that always sounds like it's pushing the mainstream boundaries to the edge, gets the standard straight-ahead quintet treatment with rhythm section and two horns, Castellanos' trumpet again teamed with tenor saxophonist Bob Wendel in the front line for some fittingly edgy interplay. Charlie Chaplin's beautiful "Smile," another trio workout that features Geoffrey on piano, on a rendition that gives Thorsen another chance to take the melody down deep."

It’s been a busy – yet relaxing weekend. Friday night the boys came and picked me up from work. We went home, sat on the porch for a while drinking beer and discussing our day. Then we went for a walk around the hood. Down both sides of the greenway and following the creek. It’s always fun to see my neighborhood through other people’s eyes. Nice to have confirmation I live in a beautiful, peaceful part of town.

For dinner, I warmed up the left over pork tenderloin, made scalloped potatoes – and a great panzella (tomato/bread) salad and … uhhh – some other stuff.

Saturday we got up “early-ish” and while the guys fixed the sagging front porch ceiling, I made biscuits and sausage gravy, scrambled eggs, and link sausage. Then they wrestled with the acoustical tiles in kitchen. We stopped the home improvement tasks at 11 o’clock and took off for the Carolina Brewing Company. This is part of the “Chez Mit” tour for anyone who’s in town on a Saturday. They’re great people at the brewery – and have some great stuff on tap to taste. My favorite was their Belgian Tripel brewed for their 14th Anniversary.

After the beer tour, we went and checked out a Miata, drove to the bus station so Herman could purchase his “see America” pass – and stopped to get some fresh shrimp.

Dinner Saturday night was Spicy Shrimp and Grits (a southern must), green salad – and Molasses Buttermilk Ice Cream. (It’s my favorite ice cream – EVER) – accompanied by CBC Beer.

Sunday morning I dropped Herman off at the bus station – and bid him adieu as he headed south to Austin. Then I went to church. When I came home, Jason and I messed with the kitchen ceiling some more (success!) I made BLTs for lunch – we cleaned behind the refrigerator – and then cleaned out the dinning room so he can start painting the ceiling today. Of course, it took two trips to the hardware store to get the right width painter’s tape. *sigh* It’s all masked off – and so is most of the new wood screen door we’ll be installing.

Last night I made “Carolina Chili” for a local recipe our Bright Leaf hot-dogs. Tuesday night we’re having short ribs – and Wednesday the neighborhood dinner group will be dinning on some version of lamb.

Lots of other stuff going on too, I think it’s going to be a busy week.

Friday, July 10, 2009

Roger Glasper - Maiden Voyage/Everything In Its Right Place

It seems as my new kick is Trios. The Alex Skolnick Trio, the Esbjörn Svensson Trio (E.S.T.), and the Roger Glasper Trio are my favorites.

I see a very strong link between E.S.T. and the Roger Glasper Trio. Although Esbjörn and Roger are both pianists, there’s a forceful percussive element running through their work. It reminds me of driving for some reason. Fast, straight driving. You could listen to this as you leave Yuma, Az and head west on I-10 for Los Angeles. Or maybe twisty driving too. I think it would fit perfectly for the Beartooth Highway which loops between the Montana and Wyoming boarder.

It’s also very “moody” music. Sometimes wildly joyful – others introspective – and occasional brooding hinting at storm-cloud filled thoughts.

My favorite part of Maiden Voyage/Everything In Its Right Place occurs about 7:43. I love the ceramic sound of the percussion and the lyrical piano. < silly smile >

Yesterday the boys went on a little walking tour of Raleigh – and found the pizza shop at the end of my street. So as I sped off to class, they walked down to the corner to bring home their Hercules – also know as the artery hardener. Canadian bacon, ground beef, Italian sausage, pepperoni and salami. It’s not that there wasn’t food in the house to eat. They just decided cooking fresh string beans was beyond their cooking skills.

I keep forgetting how non-cooks stock their kitchen and what they consider “food” vs what I consider “food”. I almost felt like a mom when I got home from class. I totally wanted to say, “there’s plenty in this house, why did you spend money on food?”

Tonight I will cook!

This morning all three of us were out of the house early – and on our way to Lowes. Now that all the supplies are in place we can move forward with the “work” section of the vacation. You know – I’m not a big fan of shopping. I hate having to look at seven different types of tape to find the “right one”. Someday I’d like to have a manufacture with me – preferably the head of the packaging division – and give him a lesson on “Informative & Easy to Distinguish” packaging theory.

Thursday, July 09, 2009

Charles Mingus - Moanin'

There’s a radio show that starts off with this riff. I LOVE this “pfat” beri sax sound. The beri usually stays hidden in the band; just stuck playing whole notes and rhythm. Here it has a chance to shine.

There are parts of this song that are difficult for me. The band members wander off into improvisational realms I can’t follow. I frequently think there are solos that sound great when you’re there in person, but don’t translate well to private listening. Or the solos can be admired if you’re a group of musicians jamming together. You, the musician - - and the ones your gigging with, know how high that note is, how tough it is to hit – how crazy fast the tempo is – how tight your improve riff is woven. But for me, the unskilled musician – the listener – if there’s not a great melody going along with that, I just kind of feel like an outsider.

The other thing I like about this piece is, it too, is an evocative piece of music. Just as when I wrote about Cool Water yesterday and said it brought to mind hot, dry, barren deserts; this calls to mind zoot suits, pocket watch chains, and spats. It totally could have been used in the score for Who Framed Roger Rabbit.

The game was nice last night. There was a wonderful cool breeze blowing – the stadium wasn’t too crowded and the two teams, the Durham Bulls and the Gwinnett Braves played a clos-ish game at 8-3.

Herman is still with us. His stop in Ky changed. Not sure what he and Jason have planned. But they seem to be enjoying each other’s company. I’m glad for both of them – especially since I’m working. I don’t have to worry about Herman being a guest – with no one to hang out with while I work – and Jason gets some “tourist” time and doesn’t spend his whole vacation (except weekends and evenings) working for me.

Hah! I just got an eMail. Those boys! They are "car shopping". Herman's thinking about buying this and ditching the Greyhound bus system. Then he'll finish driving the US on this vacation - and sell the car when he gets ready to fly back to the Netherlands. I have to admit. I'm slightly jealous and amazed. That anyone would take on such a short term purchase - and not worry about long term reliability. Guess it comes from confidence in mechanical skills and the ability to judge "car-flesh".

Tuesday, July 07, 2009

Bemsha Swing - Don Cherry & Herbie Hancock

I have no idea what a “Bemsha” is … I wonder if it’s a gypsy word. It was the “song of the day” for Bob Parlocha’s morning show. The alternative title is, "Softly, As the Morning Comes". (which gives me a little bit of a giggle)

Here are three different interpretations of Bemsha Swing: This is Don Cherry and Herbie Hancock and it focus on the horn.

The next piece is by Robi Botos with a focus on the piano work (which makes sense, since Monk was a pianist). I really like the imagery mixed in with this one … (and I really like the double bass work too – OF COURSE!)

Here’s someone showing off his jazz guitar chops. I have to say – what a lovely lush sound he has. This is totally a Sunday morning for me.

The music was first presented in 1928 and was part of an Oscar and Hammerstein II production named New Moon set in New Orleans. Here’s a lovely harp version of the song where it’s titled “Sofly, As the Morning Comes”. It has a dreamy character to it, doesn’t it? For a real period "swing" feel I found Bobby Darin singing it!

Herman didn’t make it last night – but he’ll be in the house tonight! I leave in about an hour to pick Jason up at the airport. I’ll drop him off at the house and then return to work. After work I’ll pick up the CSA veggies – and then go get Herman at the bus station. I have a pork tenderloin marinating with ginger, jalapeno, soy sauce, lime juice and Dijon mustard for dinner tonight. We’ll have veggies from the CSA, some left over green bean/potato salad – and dessert will be Strawberry Dumplings!

I expect a swinging day!

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Kenny Burrell - Wavy Gravy

Kenny Burrell is a jazz guitarist associated mostly with bebop and blues. He lists as his influences Wes Montgomery, Charlie Christian …. and guess who?? Yep, Django Reinhardt!

He’s played with Dizzy, and Oscar Peterson – and then has become a jazz educator conducting theory seminars on Duke Ellington around the world when he’s not teaching at UCLA where he is Director of Jazz Studies. You can hear him on more than 40 different LPs. (Ha! I know all of you are old enough to remember “long-play” albums – but think of how many people today wouldn’t have a clue.)

</ smugness over stupid knowledge>

I can find no background on Kenny’s piece Wavy Gravy. It’s interesting to note, there’s a political activist from the 60s known as Wavy Gravy. I thought there was no connection until I read this on Wiki that his name - "was given to him by B.B. King at the Texas International Pop Festival. Romney was lying onstage when it was announced that B.B. King was going to play. Romney began to get up; a hand appeared on his shoulder. It was B.B. King, who asked, "Are you Wavy Gravy?" ....to which Romney replied "Yes." "It's OK; I can work around you," said B.B. King, and he proceeded to play."

Since B.B. is another blues guitarist it’s safe to assume he was familiar with Burrell’s tune Wavy Gravy and hence the name.

Burrell’s best know album is Midnight Blue which contains the single by the same name. In 2005 Murray Horwitz reviewed the 1963 album for NPR Radio calling it, “the perfect late night, neon light flashing outside of the window, cigarette smoke swirling up into nothing record.” I think he got it just right.

One of my favorites is Gee Baby, Ain’t I Good to You? A question we find ourselves asking when evaluating our relationships with parents, offspring, siblings, lovers, and friends.

Interestingly enough, this was also the theme of Sunday’s sermon, “Created for Companionship”. Seems God desires us to be in fellowship with others, and that’s the way we're made. I think there should be an ** next to the word “others” and it should denote this doesn’t necessarily mean animals.

Either Molly is an insecure, needy, dog – or I am a frigid bi*#@. Her lovely owner brought along some blankets for my couch and bed because, “Molly likes to always be near me – and she’ll want to be near you too.” My immediate thought (that I kept to myself) was, “Oh – this big, long-haired dog is NOT getting on my couch or bed!”

Little did I realize the key aspect of of her owner's statement was “near you”. Molly was more than happy to lay on the floor … but she wanted to be RIGHT-NEXT-TO-ME-ALL-THE-TIME-PLEASE, and know WHY-ARE-YOU-WALKING-AWAY-FROM-ME? and I-DON’T-CARE-HOW-OFTEN-YOU-STEP-ON-ME-IN-THE-KITCHEN-I’M-NOT-MOVING, combined with OH-WHY-MUST-YOU-CLOSE-THE-BATHROOM-DOOR, and PLEASE-DO-NOT-LEAVE-ME-OUTSIDE panic and whining that let me know it's a good thing dog-sitting is short-term.

To say Molly and I were both relieved to say goodbye yesterday would be an understatement. But I must repeat. I am so glad I was able to help out my friend - and that my house/backyard is overall setup to be dog friendly.

In other news – I got lots of research done over the weekend. I can now tell you which railroad lines were in place between West Point, New York and Charlotte, North Carolina pre-civil war (not many); that a steamboat averages about 4-6 miles an hour going down the Hudson in the 1850s; and armies are composed of a corps which have 3 divisions made up of infantry, cavalry, and artillery. A division contains 4 -5 brigades which are made up of 4 -6 regiments. Regiments have 10 companies – and when they are fully manned (no attrition due to death or disease) there are 1,100 men and officers in each company. Finally a company contains 2-3 platoons and a platoon has 5 squads. A squad is 1 officer and 10 men.

With all that in mind, I now know that Josiah’s younger brother is an officer in the 1st North Carolina Cavalry Regiment, C Company of the Confederate Army. Unfortunately the acquisition on knowledge does not equally translate into "many written pages" for Thursday night. *sigh*

Here are 4 pictures of my visiting guests and from the weekend.

Fred from France

Porch Repast

Shrimp-n-Grits

Molly-Here-I-Am

Friday, May 22, 2009

John Stetch - Sanford and Son

Do you remember in the early 80s where every TV theme was a musical hit and played in constant rotation on the radio? The themes for Welcome Back Kotter, Taxi, Hill Street Blues, Cheer’s, Dallas, The Love Boat, and St. Elsewhere, instantly come to mind.

 

Some compositions were standards for the 20s, 30s, and 40s, that were hits long before they were associated with TVs show like Harlem Nocturne, written by Earle Hagen and Dick Rogers in 1939. You’ll recognize it as the music behind the opening scenes for Mickey Spillane’s Mike Hammer series.

 

In my opinion, most of the music behind TV is not that compelling. However there are some tunes were well crafted and outright brilliant compositions. I’d place most of the music behind the Bugs Bunny and Charlie Brown holiday specials in this category.

 

So – I’ve been hearing a song – over and over again. I couldn’t quite place it – but I knew it was from TV. I did some searching and the title “Streetbeater” kept popping up. Streetbeater by Quincy Jones.  Here’s the original and here’s the version that caught my attention. What do you think? Which one do you like best? I really like the piano in this – and think it changes the whole tempo of the music. More introspective – or something.

 

Speaking of introspective, spending Wednesday night and yesterday with Fred was great. The weather Wednesday night was perfect for sitting on the porch, sharing a love of wine, food, and language. Yesterday morning we had coffee out front while we discussed the French cooking idioms posted by Clotilde on her lovely food blog, “Chocolate and Zucchini”. We also took a tour of my local Whole Foods – where Fred was pretty much blown away with the quality and quantity of produce, fish, meat, wines and cheese. I think the best part was when he discovered his beloved Bucheron cheese nestled in with other French favorites.

 

Our friend Anita arrived around noon and we cooked a southern classic for brunch – Shrimp and Grits – spiced up with Andouille Sausage. Plus we used the tomalley from the shrimp’s heads to infuse the cream sauce with even more flavor. Food p0rn pictures to follow later tonight or this weekend.

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Disc Rotation or Word Up

Each morning there are a few people who get an eMail from me. Originally it was just one person - and the subject line was always a car make/model I saw on the way to work. In the body of the eMail was why I did/didn't like the style/color/engine etc. That lasted for about a year. Then there were fewer and fewer "new" cars to comment on.

About that time another friend was added to the list and Hot Sauce and I started car-pooling. He got a Sirus radio - so I've switched to one musical artist/song that strikes my fancy on my way into work. We've been doing songs for over a year now and we haven't started repeating, so that's a good sign.

Many of you may not know this ... but I am beyond a poor speller. I love words - and have a pretty good vocabulary. I ALWAYS use words properly. What I DON'T always do is know how to spell them (which can lead to HOURS of searching for synonyms or antonyms if spell checker or Dictionary.com can't untangle my garbled letters) or pronouncing them correctly.

Like Ogre ... a monster, right? Well in my (dyslexic) world it is an Orge (said Orr-gggg) and it reminds me of the shortened version of "Org" as in "an organization". Which TOTALLY MAKES SENSE ... 'cause organizations (especially volunteer ones) can be very, very, monster like.

So today's eMail was about Tierney Sutton, her album "Desire" and the track "You Give me Fever"

First, I like her vocals. On this one, she’s really extended the traditional lyrics (which I'll quote below). Second, I was TOTALLY shocked that she was a white girl.

Third … I HATE ENGLISH.

See, her name is Tierney … which I thought was Tyranny. And trying to find tyranny took me 20 MINUTES … because you say (or I say) Ter-a-ny when I’m talking about governments abusing power. But when I READ the damn word, I read Ty-ron-y … like Tyrannosaurus Rex. WHICH MAKES A WHOLE LOT OF SENSE, if you ask me. Because don't Tyrannosaurs Rex's abuse their power and storm all over the place eating poor hapless Brontosauruses and crushing buildings?? (oh wait ... maybe some Godzilla got mixed in there. Anyway, you TOTALLY get my point, right?)

Further … I was all in that racial profiling mode when the DJ announced her name and thinking … "Why do people have to name their kids such STUPID things?" The most recent “joke” going around is about a child named la-ah …. and you pronounce it “LaDasha” because the “dash isn’t silent” … excuse me, I forgot to laugh. Maybe you are.

Or there’s Laorgella … kind of like Angela but made "French" with a "La" in front … except HARDY-HAR-HAR …. It’s really “Orange Jell-o”.

So … here I go to look up Tyranny/Tierney on the web, so I can link to her song … and she’s this beautiful blond. And her name has nothing to do with power. Huh.

And while I’m on this rampage … WTF is up with the word FEVER? You say it Fea-ver … like combining the words Sea and shiver. There should be an “a” in there. Just like "travelled" should have two “l's” … because THAT’S HOW SPELLING WORKS!!! Learn the rules people, LEARN THE GOL-DARN-EVER-CHANGING rules.

Anyway ... enough of that ... here's part of the fun lyrics.

Romeo loved Juliet

And Juliet felt the same

When he put his arms around her

He said "Julie baby you're my flame"

Thou give me fever

when we kisseth

a fever with the flaming youth

Fever I'm afire

Fever yea I burn for sooth'

<…>

Now that you've listened to my story

Here's the point that I have made

Chicks were born to give ya fever

Be it Fahrenheit or centigrade

They give ya fever

When ya kiss em

An fever if you live in learn

Fever until you sizzle

What a lovely way to burn

What a lovely way to burn

What a lovely way to burn

Fever

Til ya sizzle

Saturday, February 14, 2009

SweetTarts

I know - it's been forever. I got home from California, and Didi was still here. I put him on a plane, spent two days putting the "after-home-repair" mess to rights ... and then welcomed my next house guest Dilly. She was here for a week - and then left and now my last house guest for the near future has arrived. Perhaps in another week or so, I'll catch you all up. (or maybe not).

The weekend has been great. My friend Birget, who is from Edinburgh, Scottland, and is on a five month world tour, got to my house right at lunch time. We brought her stuff in and then headed out to Carolina Brewing Company for a "tour". Which really means they hand you pint glasses - and open the taps at 12:45 ... and keep them open 'till about 1:15. Then they do a 20 minute talk about how they make beer and the different styles - then they open the taps back up 'till 2 or 2:30.


To soak up the beer, we went to a "Calabash" seafood restaurant. (It a style of fried food here in North Carolina). We came home - and she took a nap while I finished puttering around with dinner preparations.

Because it is Valentines day, I decided to play with the theme of "SweetTart" for our meal - Red and Yellow - and NOT make this some sentimental gathering of single women.


I made the lemon curd for the Almond-Lemon cake, the rub for the steaks (lemon zest, rosemary and garlic), and the salad dressing (lemon, garlic, garbanzo bean paste, and shallots).

After she got up - I put her to work cleaning out the barbeque grill - and then I started the lemon-cracked pepper pasta. A friend joined us for dinner and brought wine.


I think the meal was good - the table seemed to get quiet for a while. And the conversation was great. Birgit was talking about being a scientist - and working with biological toxicology - and my friend Linda talked about being a southern girl going to college in the 70s - and burning her bra - and the politics of the time.


With the cake (which added gained a splash of sweet and red with the raspberries on top of the lemon curd) we had Prosecco - a Spanish sparkling wine. The cake was light and airy sponge ... and mmmmmm.


We've just finished doing the dishes - and I'm headed towards bed.


So - I hope Valentine's Day is special for all of you, it certainly was a winner in my book.


Saturday, January 24, 2009

Gray, Gloomy and the GPS is lost too

I am here in hell. Or my hometown. OMG .. this place is SO depressing. *sigh*

Flew into Sac late Wed night. A friend who lives in Sac, picked me up at the airport and I spent the night at her house. It was raining then ... and I bet if I were to go out and get the newspaper now, it will still be raining.

Came on up here, where my parents live, Thursday. Because I had no idea WHERE I was in Sacramento - I plugged my Mom and Dad's address into the Grimlin. It took me home ... THE WRONG WAY ... but of course, since I didn't know WHERE I WAS, I didn't know how to turn around and make it recalculate the way home THE RIGHT WAY. (oh, it is SO HELPFUL having a GPS.)

Shortly after I arrived - there was a big gang fight over at the high school (Mom and Dad live one block behind the school) ... and there were some kids (that we suspect were involved in the fight) going in and out of an abandoned house (!!) on their street - so we had to call the police about THAT.

THEN .. we drove up to the vet's in Live Oak, 'cause one of Dad's hunting dogs had hurt her paw. (see what an EXCITING LIFE I lead?)

Yesterday, in the gray and gloom we went up to Nevada City to do some research for my novel. It was good to get my hands on some actual materials, but I got to look at about 1/100 th of the stuff. And I really don't know WHAT to ask for, nor HOW to ask for it, and kind of feel like a bozo ... so THAT WAS FUN.

Today my brother and his family (they live in Lodi, blergh) come up and we're installing a new computer for my Mom and Dad. (Oh the joy!) Currently they have a Dell laptop - but they didn't buy the extended warranty with it - and the screen went dead about 2 years ago - which means they have it hooked to a monitor. It runs S-L-O-W-E-R T-H-A-N M-O-L-A-S-E-S ... and has taken to just turning itself off. No blue screen of death or anything - just blink and gone. I think it's over heating. So - maybe after we get the new system up and going - we'll be able to reinstall the orginal XP disks - and drivers and the laptop will work too. (although I doubt it.) And maybe I can make the new computer idiot proof so they don't download stuff they don't need on it and make it run slow too. (hahahahaha)

Tomorrow after church, I am leaving here and heading to Clear Lake. I've rented a house with some friends. We'll be there through Wed. Monday we're going to tour the little wineries around the lake - on Tuesday we're going all the way to Sebastopol and I have an appointment set up with Paul Hobbs Winery and Iron Horse Sparkling Wines. I am really excited to taste Paul's wines. (Usually out of my price range). Then we're going over to St. Helena for dinner at Tra Vinge.

See - SUCH the glamorous life. (not)

Zen there's the house repair

While I'm here on the west coast - Didi is still at my house slaving away doing all my honey-do list. I am slightly worried about how he's getting along. Mainly because he is BLIND (but not THAT kind I blind I keep telling everyone!) He doesn't have any depth-perception or peripheral vision Which makes it hard to find things when he drops them ... OR SETS THEM DOWN SOMEWHERE - and like WHO DOESN'T DO THAT 10,000 times a day??

So there you have it ... all the news from Ellis Lake.

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Dinner for the 'hood

I’m really liking the challenge of cooking in a very short period of time on a week night for friends. They make it easier, because they'll pretty much go down whatever path I lead them.

In the beginning when I first moved here and they first met me, I would cook big Saturday night meals - and do the whole thing; appetizers, salad, main, side dishes, dessert, and appropriate wines. But I realized I couldn't be cooking $150 meals for friends on a regular basis – and live within my budget.

We also had a hard time getting together on weekends with our crazy work/travel/relationship schedules - so I revised the format. Now we get together once a month - I supply the main course - and then assign the other parts to them. I’ve learned to choose items I can prep or half-way cook the night before - so that when I get home at 6:30 I just have to finish off dinner. I try really hard to have the table set before I leave for work in the morning so everything is ready to go when they show up around 7:15 that night.

The most recent change is how wine is selected for the evening. After naming a specific varietal, or type, I give a list specific wines they could buy (never more than $15/bottle and usually $10 or less).

This week I made a Roasted Potato and Leek Soup. It was really, really good. I selected an Australian and a Chilaean Riesling to accompany it. Normally I am not a big sweet wine fan - but the good things about the Australian and Chilean's are the style is different than German Rieslings. They were crisp - and slightly acid. Good balance for a soup with lots of cream.

The person who brought appetizers did Sopa Strata wrapped around Provolone, some Klamata Olives and Grape Tomatoes. The salad had artichoke hearts, feta cheese, sunflower seeds, and red onion rings. Our bread was a great Sourdough, and dessert was Gingerbread with Lemon Curd Sauce!

It was a great evening. We caught up on the holiday just past – recent surgeries, job changes, past and future travel plans. All while exclaiming “Wow! This tastes so great!” What better way to spend a week night, eh?

ps: It's going to be SEVEN DEGREES here tonight!! I think getting in the car to go to the gym at five o'clock in the morning ... is going to be .... a challenge!

pps: Two more days and company arrives!!!

ppps: This time next week, I'll be in my hometown. I'm hoping it will be at least 50 degrees warmer ... maybe even 60!